(Or, “Miss Nice Girl”, in my case)
See these are some problems you may face when you appear to be too nice most of the time & are too considerate over what other people think:
People tend to walk all over you; they take for granted that you will be amiable & okay with almost anything they think you would be amiable & okay with but they don’t ask you about it, they just go ahead with whatever decision they come to; and you don’t really get your opinions heard until the very last minute.
When usually, it’s a bit too late because you’re already at the losing end.
And you lose your balls to voice out your opinions.
Or maybe, I’m just too much of a private person to literally involve myself more often, but c’mon – just because I’m private does not mean I can’t blow up when pushed to my limits.
Is being considerate and avoiding any conflict and/or awkwardness, really worth a month of living while second-guessing yourself?
Or do I just risk most of it it all by actually putting my foot down for what I want, because I have a say in this matter too?
I actually told myself I won’t be arsed with such issues, but here I am at 4.35am, unable to sleep, dwelling over this.